Mother's Day flower sale

Help support the Kelowna Women's Shelter this Mother's Day and show your love for the women in your life with some beautiful flowers!
You can pre-order a bouquet or hanging basket for only $29 by visiting our website: www.kelownawomensshelter.com.
We've extended our pre-order period, you can now buy online until May 8.
Pick up your flowers (or buy some more!) May 9, 2015 at Save-On-Foods at Orchard Plaza.
We'll have a table set up in the parking lot from 10 a.m.-2 p.m.
Come say hello and join us for a BBQ lunch.
Moms, grandmas, sisters and friends will all love the gorgeous greenery and the recognition.
And we love the support-- thank you so much!

Women and their pets can leave abusive situations

A heart-breaking story in Saanich, B.C. is a reminder to all women that services are available to help both you and your pets.
The family of a woman found dead inside the Saanich home last week said a coroner's report confirmed Julie Khurana was killed by her husband.
The family said Khurana suffered serious domestic abuse over the course of her relationship with her husband, but didn't want to leave their two dogs behind and feared she didn't have enough money to support herself.
Too many women don't leave abusive relationships because they don't want to leave their pets.
The Kelowna Women's Shelter is grateful to Angel's Animal Rescue in Merritt, B.C. who have offered to take care of our client's pets when they come to the shelter.
It is an important partnership that can offer women peace of mind about their animals while allowing them to seek a safe space.
Angel's Animal Rescue is currently looking for more foster homes for pets in need.
If you need to contact Angel's Animal Rescue, please call: Judanna at 250-315-5276 or Natalie at 250-801-0832.
You can visit their website here: www.angelsanimalrescue.ca.

The Kelowna Women’s Shelter is a non-profit organization that offers emergency transitional housing, counseling, support and education to women and their children who have experienced abuse. For more information, or to make a donation, visit kelownawomensshelter.ca or call 250-763-1040.

Southern Insurance donates money and clothes

Southern Insurance dropped by the Kelowna Women's Shelter this week with a generous $1000 donation, a truckload of great clothes and some yoga passes from Karma Yoga. Southern Insurance staff members all contributed cash, clothes or their time volunteering. Kim Warawa and Tanya made the presentation, Kim also arranged to have a crew come in and paint a new counselling area. Thank you all!

Orchard Park presents donation

The Kelowna Women's Shelter is grateful to the generous staff and customers at Orchard Park Shopping Centre for a generous donation of $1500. Vikki Webster and Tanya Cormier, representatives of Orchard Park, recently presented the shelter with a cheque. The funds were raised during the mall's "Style Inspirers" campaign. Customers had a chance to win a $1000 shopping spree. How fun is that?! Thank you so much, Orchard Park, and thank you to all of the customers who donated!

Former domestic abuse victim shares story of healing and hope

April 12-18, 2015 is Prevention of Violence Against Women Week. As part of its efforts to focus attention on the ongoing issue of family violence, and galvanize the community to take action to help prevent it, the Kelowna Women’s Shelter submitted this article.

Hairstylist Colleen Woelders arrived in Kelowna on a bus from Vancouver Island 15 years ago, with a dislocated and broken shoulder and her eight-month-old son in her arms. She was exhausted and terrified, having finally gathered the courage to leave her partner after another violent attack.

“He used to take the steel toed boots to me, and he had kicked me several times in the past. This time I decided I had enough and reached out for help,” she says.

A counsellor from the Kelowna Women’s Shelter picked her and her infant son up at the bus station, and brought them back to the Shelter, where Colleen could finally get some rest.

“I had been awake all night. Just the feeling of being in a safe place with my son, where I could get some sleep and start to gather my strength gave me such a sense of relief that I could breathe and finally start to heal.”

In the coming weeks, Colleen cried a lot of tears, attended countless individual and group counselling sessions, and started to realize she didn't have to protect her abuser anymore.

“I was so brainwashed, fearful, tired and beaten down,” she says now. “The counsellors at the Shelter were so amazing, and it was powerful to go from being so controlled and dependent on him to becoming a stronger and more independent woman.”

One day during her stay at the Shelter, Colleen saw an employment posting for a hairdresser, and bravely walked in and applied for the job.

Fifteen years later, Colleen owns and operates Kelowna Hair Design, and gives back by training high school students, offering special needs employment opportunities, and providing free services to Kelowna Women’s Shelter clients.

“I know what it feels like to be in that situation. I will always have my chair open for that emergency colour for the girl that’s running and hiding. I will step up and help her change her appearance and do what I can to keep her safe and feeling good about herself.”

Of her time at the Shelter Colleen calls it “lifesaving” and says if she can help one woman make the decision to leave an abusive relationship by speaking out about her experience it is worth it.

“I want women who are in this situation to know if they can face their fears and gather the courage to reach out for help, there is a better, brighter, happier future ahead, and life can be wonderful.”

The Kelowna Women’s Shelter is a non-profit organization that offers emergency transitional housing, counseling, support and education to women and their children who have experienced abuse. For more information, or to make a donation, visit kelownawomensshelter.ca or call 250-763-1040.

Kelowna Women’s Shelter marks 35 years of changing lives

April 12-18, 2015 is Prevention of Violence Against Women Week. As part of its efforts to focus attention on the ongoing issue of family violence, and galvanize the community to take action to help prevent it, the Kelowna Women’s Shelter submitted this article.

2015 marks the 35^th anniversary of the Kelowna Women’s Shelter. Since it opened its doors in 1980, the Shelter has helped thousands of women and children who have experienced domestic violence and abuse get a fresh start with emergency housing, and a range of other free and confidential services. Here are some historical highlights:

1980- Kelowna Women’s Shelter opens doors. Shelter services include housing, crisis intervention and support counselling, education, and information on violence against women. 

1987-Weekly drop-in support group launches

1990-Supportive counselling and activity program for children, which later becomes Children Who Witness Abuse (CWWA) and later the SuperNOVA program, launches.

1998-Inside/Out Violence Prevention Program for Youth launches as pilot project at two secondary schools. The program now reaches about 400 children a year.

2003-Kelowna Women’s Shelter Thrift Store opens.

2008-Shelter purchases and renovates adjacent residential property to establish second stage housing facility for up to four, single women.

2011-“Tree of Hope” funds therapeutic trauma counselling program.

2013 – Kelowna Women’s Shelter Thrift Store celebrates 10 year anniversary and relocates to Industrial Avenue from downtown.

2013-2014 – More than 290 community volunteers give in excess of 12,000 hours of their time at the Shelter and Thrift Store.

2015 – Kelowna Women’s Shelter celebrates 35 years of changing lives

The Kelowna Women’s Shelter is a non-profit organization that offers emergency transitional housing, counseling, support and education to women and their children who have experienced abuse. For more information, or to make a donation, visit kelownawomensshelter.ca or call 250-763-1040.

Violence: a very real part of life for too many local women and children

April 12-18, 2015 is Prevention of Violence Against Women Week. As part of its efforts to focus attention on the ongoing issue of family violence, and galvanize the community to take action to help prevent it, the Kelowna Women’s Shelter submitted this article.

Imagine racing out of your home in the middle of the night with your little ones in your arms. Fearfully fleeing the partner who was supposed to love, respect and cherish you, but has instead abused and hurt you and your children time and time again.

You have nothing but the clothes on your back and the hard-won courage it took to finally leave a toxic relationship that has left you beaten down, questioning yourself, and feeling alone and ashamed.

For many women in our community, this scenario is an all too common reality. For those with limited options, the Kelowna Women’s Shelter offers safe haven; providing housing, food, clothing, information, and the counselling and support they need, all at no charge.

The Shelter has a long history in the community. Its team of dedicated, highly-trained staff have helped thousands of women and children get a fresh start and move towards a future free of abuse since the Shelter opened its doors in 1980.

But thirty-five years later, the problem of violence against women shows no signs of going away.

On average, every six days a woman in Canada is killed by her intimate partner. Between 2004 and 2014, domestic violence claimed the lives of 113 women in British Columbia, an average of 10 women a year.

Violence and abuse drive more than 100,000 women and children out of their homes and into Canadian shelters every year. Last year more than 200 of them spent at least one night in the Kelowna Women’s Shelter.

They are our neighbours, our friends, our co-workers. Members of this community who attend school, shop for groceries, attend church, and go to work. If you or someone you know needs help, a safe place to stay or even just someone to talk to, contact the Shelter at 250-763-1040.

All services are confidential, and counselling staff are available 24-hours-a-day to do everything from providing a friendly ear to creating a detailed safety plan. Because abuse is never okay, but asking for help is!